'Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. There they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those at the table with him. Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus' feet, and wiped them with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (the one who was about to betray him), said, "Why was this perfume not sold for three hundred denarii and the money given to the poor?" (He said this not because he cared about the poor, but because he was a thief; he kept the common purse and used to steal what was put into it.) Jesus said, "Leave her alone. She bought it so that she might keep it for the day of my burial. You always have the poor with you, but you do not always have me."'
--John 12: 1-8
He said, “You always have the poor with you, but you do not always have me.” That’s a loaded statement, don’t you think? It’s been used by preachers and government officials as an excuse for not making real, effective efforts toward the alleviation of poverty. From feudal societies up to today, the chorus of the privileged is that there will always be poverty, so why bother trying to fix it. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, not long before his death in 1968 said, “A true revolution of values will soon cause us to question the fairness and justice of many of our past and present policies…True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar. It comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring.” He called this revolution a Poor People’s Campaign.
Some four decades later, the Poor People’s Campaign: A National Call for Moral Revival was founded, in the hopes of carrying out Dr. King’s vision for a morally just society that builds lasting power for poor and impacted people. As you might guess, their efforts are often met by those same preachers and government officials quick to cite Jesus: “You will always have the poor with you,” they quote, almost gleefully. But what if I told you that Jesus’ words don’t mean what some of those folks might think they mean?
One of the co-founders of the Poor People’s Campaign, along with The Rev. Dr. William Barber, is The Rev. Dr. Liz Theoharis, who wrote the book Always with Us? What Jesus Really Said About the Poor. In it she examines the week’s story from the Gospel of John, which can also be found in Matthew, chapter 26, Mark, chapter 14, and Luke, chapter 7. Dr. Theoharis proposes that this entire story is itself a call for the followers of Jesus to care for the poor, rather than brush them off with a reference to Jesus’ statement that has the same flippancy as Judas.
So let’s unpack what’s going on here. The meal to which Jesus has been invited is hosted by Mary, Martha, and Lazarus of Bethany, a town whose very name means, in Hebrew, “the house of the poor.” Poverty is at the forefront of this encounter. It is here, in the midst of poverty, that Jesus is anointed—it’s his feet in John’s and Luke’s versions and his head in Matthew’s and Mark’s. And what does the Hebrew word ‘Messiah’ mean? Anointed one! He is literally anointed by poverty, which is a physical expression of the central message of Jesus’ earthly ministry, that he has come to bring good news to the poor and to model this pattern of living and preaching for his followers. This model clashes with everything the people around him knew about wealth and power; after all, isn’t power meant to flow from the wealthy? Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection, however, would seem to suggest otherwise. It is precisely in the experiences of the poor that the glory of God is to be found.
And what are we to make of Judas’ rebuke of Mary? (For what it's worth, in the other Gospels, Mary is not named, and it is the group of disciples as a whole who chastise her, rather than Judas, who has become an effective scapegoat by the time of the Fourth Gospel.) Her actions don’t seem especially frugal, do they? Nard was said to cost the equivalent of about a year’s worth of wages. This jar represents her family’s nest egg, their rainy day fund, their safety net. Judas the treasurer doesn’t understand such a lack of fiscal responsibility. He tries to trap Jesus and Mary in a kind of bind, re-framing the scenario in utilitarian terms; he deems Mary’s behavior to be “wasteful” because something more practical or productive could’ve been done with the perfume. It could've been converted to money and given to charity. Judas presents a false dichotomy that he tries to frame in “either/or” terms, but Jesus responds with a “both/and” answer, reminding him that his duty is to always work for the alleviation of poverty, and that acts of extravagant love that are poured out freely, like Mary’s, are never antithetical to that goal; in fact, it is often precisely those living in poverty who are most willing to spend what they have in order to celebrate and honor those that they love, or help out a stranger in need.
What's more, Jesus' reference to the poor always being with them is a reference to Deuteronomy, chapter 15, in which Moses said that there would never be day when poverty was not a reality, precisely because the people had not followed God’s laws regarding the care for the poor and needy in their midst. Judas knows this passage, as does everyone around that table. Care for the poor is a non-negotiable, and though Jesus may not be with them for much longer, the opportunity will always be there, not merely for them to be charitable toward the poor, but for them to follow Mary’s example of extravagant love. As Dr. Theoharis again puts it: “Jesus is suggesting that if the disciples and other concerned people continue to offer charity-based solutions, Band-Aid help – as she calls it – and superficial solace, instead of social transformation with the poor at the helm, poverty will not cease (in disregard of and disobedience to God).”
Judas is thinking with a charity-based mindset, and one can always claim to have the moral high ground when taking such an approach. Jesus, however, is challenging how poor people are even seen by others. He doesn’t see Mary’s station, but rather the gift that she offers. Mary senses looming loss and seeks to quench death’s thirst by anointing Jesus’ feet with this costly nard. It’s all she can do. She is building a bridge between the hope Jesus represents and the despair that is pervading the air, trying to alleviate it with the smell of the perfume. Judas tries to desecrate this bridge with his smug remark. He sees only in transactional terms, rather than relational ones. His greed separates him from the essence Mary intuitively understands.
We are to some degree both Mary and Judas, are we not? We both build up and tear down, nurture and diminish the essence of God in our midst. We will always have such contradictions within us. Privilege often sees poverty, and by extension poor people themselves, as a problem to be fixed, yet Jesus points to the relational aspect presented in Mary’s gift of this costly nard used to anoint his feet. He is humanizing her over and above Judas, the person of privilege, who accuses her of being wasteful. As Jesus says in Mark’s version of the story: "what she has done will be told in remembrance of her wherever the good news is proclaimed."
Mary’s act of anointing Jesus’ feet – a story we will hear again on Holy Monday – is a testament to both her love of Jesus and her prophetic wisdom in understanding that, though fear and death were in the air, there was something only she could do for Jesus. Her witness reminds us, too, of the importance of seeing people for who they are, beyond a label or station, so that we may not be so quick to judge others for acts of love that we might be tempted to call wasteful. Let us pray for the grace to understand our deepest motivations, especially around giving, and work toward the kind of equitable society where whatever gift anyone gives to Jesus can be held sacred.